"Why would a guy want his wife to sleep with another man"

cuckhus15 · Post by **cuckhus15** » Sun Oct 13, 2024 4:33 pm

Thanks army guy

Bryce 69 · Post by **Bryce 69** » Fri Oct 25, 2024 4:53 pm

because she snores really bad

cuckhus15 · Post by **cuckhus15** » Sat Oct 26, 2024 7:01 am

Because if you have a hot sexy wife there is nothing hotter than watching her fuck. Her enjoying herself and your friends and others enjoying themselves fucking her the way she likes to be fucked.

hotwifelina · Post by **hotwifelina** » Sat Oct 26, 2024 9:03 am

cuckhus15 wrote: ↑
Sat Oct 26, 2024 7:01 am
Because if you have a hot sexy wife there is nothing hotter than watching her fuck. Her enjoying herself and your friends and others enjoying themselves fucking her the way she likes to be fucked.

YES You’re absolutely correct this is why we share our beautiful hot waves. There’s so beautiful they need to be shared and enjoyed by well hung guys.

cuckhus15 · Post by **cuckhus15** » Sat Oct 26, 2024 9:04 am

Totally agree - I don't mind her Fucking my friend. Amazing watching them and sometimes sharing

BBCfan · Post by **BBCfan** » Fri Nov 29, 2024 1:31 pm

isharedmywifein2018 wrote: ↑
Sun Aug 18, 2024 8:46 am
We have a gene that makes watching our wives get fucked the ultimate. I would rather jack off watching my wife getting fucked by her bull then have PIV with her.

That's interesting. As a wannabe I don't know if that would be the case. I guess you don't know till you witness it.
I figure reclaiming after would be the hottest thing for me, but maybe stroking and watching would be a thrill I can't imagine until it happens.
I Wonder if I'd be too nervous to be even aroused while watching.
Hope I find out one day.

Tryagain · Post by **Tryagain** » Sat Nov 30, 2024 7:26 am

BBCfan wrote: ↑
Fri Nov 29, 2024 1:31 pm

isharedmywifein2018 wrote: ↑
Sun Aug 18, 2024 8:46 am
We have a gene that makes watching our wives get fucked the ultimate. I would rather jack off watching my wife getting fucked by her bull then have PIV with her.
That's interesting. As a wannabe I don't know if that would be the case. I guess you don't know till you witness it.
I figure reclaiming after would be the hottest thing for me, but maybe stroking and watching would be a thrill I can't imagine until it happens.
I Wonder if I'd be too nervous to be even aroused while watching.
Hope I find out one day.

Too nervous? You bet i was. During that first time when she fucked a really hung guy who drove her nuts again and again that first time, I was so overcome by her reaction that i did not get hard at all. You can't imagine how i felt as the guy got rock hard 3 times and looked over at me and my 1.5 inch softee. But worse, when we all 3 laid in bed in between him fucking the hell out of her, my wife in the middle, and looking at his 5-6 inches of very thick, soft cock flopped over on his thigh and then looking at my skinny, little 1.5 inches wondering how my wife was reacting to see the difference.

And then, as if nothing else could make me feel more inadequate, she reaches for his cock - again ! - and grabs it and it immediately begins to grow to full length and she just says "wow" and he then kneels up between her legs to fuck her again and her knees hit me in the face and I had to scurry off the bed and out of the way like a rat fleeing the scene and then watched another 15 minutes of intense fucking until she said she was getting sore!

money_for_nothin23 · Post by **money_for_nothin23** » Mon Dec 02, 2024 4:29 am

zardoz7766 wrote: ↑
Mon Apr 28, 2008 12:05 pm
What I qouted was 75%. That is just stats and not a negative bias. If I based it soley on my practise then I wouldn't have a 75% negative bias, more like a 60%. The two studys took into account all statisitically relevent issues but I will tell yoou if you are in the lifestyle and make it past 12-15 years the chance of divorce actually goes down a significantly to less than the ave of all relationships. About the daughter, I truly would like to meet her and discuss this because, I have never ever experienced this and maybe this could give me some insight on how to treat these people. I have dealt with over 200 children of these type relationships and they all held it against thier parents, again the commonalities-lack of respect for the parents and they saw a lack of respect between the parents, lack of love as they defined it, selfishness, it's all about sex and sex with others, these are not my words but theirs. As a last thought of course I have a negative opinion of the lifestyle but it is because of the divorce rate and effects on children. Come to think about it I am biased but for reasons!

It IS negative bias because you are suggesting cause and effect...."if you engage in this lifestyle, you have a 75% chance of divorce".....without carefully considering why some get divorced and others do not. I could make a similar argument that those who get married have a 50% chance of divorce....so therefore don't engage in marriage. That argument is bullshit! There is an argument that those who are already having marriage problems are more likely wanting to explore this lifestyle....versus fixing the root cause of their relationship issues. But if you already have a healthy committed relationship with excellent honesty and communication, this lifestyle can enhance your relationship tremendously. So....it would be best for you to complete your research before you start throwing meaningless statistics around that are meant to imply a specific behavioral outcome is better than another.

money_for_nothin23 · Post by **money_for_nothin23** » Mon Dec 02, 2024 4:30 am

zardoz7766 wrote: ↑
Mon Apr 28, 2008 12:05 pm
What I qouted was 75%. That is just stats and not a negative bias. If I based it soley on my practise then I wouldn't have a 75% negative bias, more like a 60%. The two studys took into account all statisitically relevent issues but I will tell yoou if you are in the lifestyle and make it past 12-15 years the chance of divorce actually goes down a significantly to less than the ave of all relationships. About the daughter, I truly would like to meet her and discuss this because, I have never ever experienced this and maybe this could give me some insight on how to treat these people. I have dealt with over 200 children of these type relationships and they all held it against thier parents, again the commonalities-lack of respect for the parents and they saw a lack of respect between the parents, lack of love as they defined it, selfishness, it's all about sex and sex with others, these are not my words but theirs. As a last thought of course I have a negative opinion of the lifestyle but it is because of the divorce rate and effects on children. Come to think about it I am biased but for reasons!

It IS negative bias because you are suggesting cause and effect...."if you engage in this lifestyle, you have a 75% chance of divorce".....without carefully considering why some get divorced and others do not. I could make a similar argument that those who get married have a 50% chance of divorce....so therefore don't engage in marriage. That argument is bullshit! There is an argument that those who are already having marriage problems are more likely wanting to explore this lifestyle....versus fixing the root cause of their relationship issues. But if you already have a healthy committed relationship with excellent honesty and communication, this lifestyle can enhance your relationship tremendously. So....it would be best for you to complete your research before you start throwing meaningless statistics around that are meant to imply a specific behavioral outcome is better than another.

SpicySaltnPepper · Post by **SpicySaltnPepper** » Mon Dec 02, 2024 9:25 am

Whether it's business, medicine, rocket science, or sex, I've learned there's great value in allowing the experts and specialists to do what they do best. And as a husband, I've learned that there's little I wouldn't do to make sure my wife has the "best" of what she needs.

Combine those two together, and it only makes sense that you'd want someone like me, a man who can even make my asexual wife scream with pleasure, to take care of keeping your wife pleasured so that you can concentrate on the things you're best at, and be sure that your wife has the best sex that she can imagine.

Admitting what you're good at and what you're not is very freeing. And if you can turn it into a kink so that you get off on it too, that sounds like it's as good as it gets.

Cliffsnotes: let the experts do the fucking. Sit, back, watch, and enjoy.

Tryagain · Post by **Tryagain** » Tue Dec 03, 2024 6:04 am

I agree with the above 100% !

SpicySaltnPepper · Post by **SpicySaltnPepper** » Tue Dec 03, 2024 10:52 am

Tryagain wrote: ↑
Tue Dec 03, 2024 6:04 am
I agree with the above 100% !

Post by **leggysman** » Wed Dec 04, 2024 3:04 am

There is however a certain sort of tiresome, egomaniacal wanker who'd never get anywhere close to sleeping with my wife.

SpicySaltnPepper · Post by **SpicySaltnPepper** » Wed Dec 04, 2024 3:28 am

leggysman wrote: ↑
Wed Dec 04, 2024 3:04 am
There is however a certain sort of tiresome, egomaniacal wanker who'd never get anywhere close to sleeping with my wife.

Always be wary of any "bull" who constantly toots their own horn. They're usually the same guys using Photoshop to enhance their package.

Really, in any scenario, the quiet and cool professional who goes about their business is almost always the better/faster/stonger/etc option.

The only exception to that for me is with couples where the couple gets off on humiliation, dominance, bullying, etc... But at that point it's just part of the sex, a character I play.

Jackstour · Post by **Jackstour** » Wed Dec 18, 2024 2:49 am

My wife is out today on a play date, with a bloke she has fucked before and enjoyed. I love that she does it, she loves fucking, men or women, and she is just in the process of developing a new girlfriend.

For me it’s a huge turn on when she is playing with other people, sometimes I’m there, sometimes I’m not. All I can say is that we have the very best sex of my life after she has been with another person. The look in her eyes, the touch of her body, the musky scent that clings to her - it drives me mad and makes me hard.

We are completely in love, we’ve been together for fifteen years, we met through swinging and always knew what we were getting into from day one. I wouldn’t be without her.

BT2 · Post by **BT2** » Wed Dec 18, 2024 10:33 am

Like Jackstour above, I love it when my wife has a date with another woman. I enjoy FMFs even more. I have always believed that a hotwife can have sex with another woman, that it is still being a hotwife. Yet I see little or no evidence of that in any of the posts on this forum.

Aussiem · Post by **Aussiem** » Thu Dec 19, 2024 6:59 pm

we are both 70yo, we started swinging when we were 30. stopped only a cpl of year ago. So married 50 years and been playing with others for nearly 40.
I am a second-generation swinger. My wife had lots of guys before we married.
We are both highly sexed and would never have survived a monogamous marriage.

emca753 · Post by **emca753** » Sat Dec 28, 2024 11:28 am

YoungBostonM wrote: ↑
Tue Aug 07, 2007 6:06 pm
Reading through these threads on Craigslist Boston's Missed Connections, I miss the stickied thread on the old forum.

[url]http: //boston.craigslist.org/search/mis?query=advice&minAsk=min&maxAsk=max[/url]

The gist of the threads is that a woman posted asking for advice about her husband's fantasy to see her with another man. The responses range from "he's not normal" to "he's gay."

Does anybody have anything even resembling that old thread? It would be like a beacon of light in this ocean of ignorance.

Her enjoyment her sharing with you....maybe there was some distance prior

isinlarsa · Post by **isinlarsa** » Sun Dec 29, 2024 7:37 am

Because she wants to.

lisamyhotwife · Post by **lisamyhotwife** » Sun Dec 29, 2024 8:01 am

isinlarsa wrote: ↑
Sun Dec 29, 2024 7:37 am
Because she wants to.

What more reason would one need

Post by **Saras_Stag** » Sun Dec 29, 2024 6:18 pm

For me, my gorgeous wife has always had huge self-esteem issues and barely believed I thought she was so beautiful and sexy let alone anyone else. A big reason I am encouraging her is I truly value her happiness and seeing her start realizing that I was telling the truth about her is so amazing and enriching.

I write about our very recent baby steps here: viewtopic.php?f=47&t=74876

Thebestdays1 · Post by **Thebestdays1** » Tue Dec 31, 2024 1:55 am

BT2 wrote: ↑
Wed Dec 18, 2024 10:33 am
Like Jackstour above, I love it when my wife has a date with another woman. I enjoy FMFs even more. I have always believed that a hotwife can have sex with another woman, that it is still being a hotwife. Yet I see little or no evidence of that in any of the posts on this forum.

My now, ex wife told me she was bi when I proposed to her. She had a girlfriend at the time, her best friend. During the 20 years we were married she had many male and female lovers and went with a married couple for a short while. We both went with one of her colleagues, but never at the same time. I wasn't ever allowed to ask her colleague what they did, although I did find out a few things from her over time.
It was quite usual for her to have a girlfriend at the same time that she had a boyfriend and during two periods that she had one long term boyfriend, she had two female lovers at the same time. He was lucky enough to have had a threesome with my wife and one of the women as he was the one that introduced them.
When she went with a woman she would always tell me but, I was never allowed to ask for any details. Sex with a woman was something she wanted to do for herself and she didn't want it to be part of my sexual gratification.
I did eventually get to see her with a woman and it was strange, yet exciting.

cuckhus715 · Post by **cuckhus715** » Tue Dec 31, 2024 7:04 am

Because my sexy blond hot wife is too hot for just me. I love watching my friends with her alone or in a threesome. Hearing about their dates. It helps her self esteem and makes her feel sexy and desired. No matter how attractive a woman is they always need continuous attention and reassurance.

cuckhus715 · Post by **cuckhus715** » Tue Dec 31, 2024 7:04 am

Because my sexy blond hot wife is too hot for just me. I love watching my friends with her alone or in a threesome. Hearing about their dates. It helps her self esteem and makes her feel sexy and desired. No matter how attractive a woman is they always need continuous attention and reassurance.

cuckhus715 · Post by **cuckhus715** » Tue Dec 31, 2024 7:04 am

Because my sexy blond hot wife is too hot for just me. I love watching my friends with her alone or in a threesome. Hearing about their dates. It helps her self esteem and makes her feel sexy and desired. No matter how attractive a woman is they always need continuous attention and reassurance.

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